Level A · Beginner

Saying goodbye

Xiaoyu is leaving Auntie Wang's dinner. Chen Hao wants to see her out; she says no, it is cold outside.

What you learn to do

  • announcing that you are leaving
  • politely pressing someone to stay
  • declining to be seen out
  • promising to let someone know you got home
  1. Xiaoyu

    阿姨时间

    Āyí, shíjiān bù zǎo le, wǒ xiān zǒu le.

    Auntie, it is getting late, I had better be off.

  2. Auntie Wang

    这么一会儿

    Zhème kuài ? Zài zuò yīhuìr ba.

    So soon? Stay a little longer.

  3. Xiaoyu

    明天上班下次

    Míngtiān hái yào shàngbān, xiàcì zài lái.

    I am working tomorrow, I will come again next time.

  4. Auntie Wang

    东西

    Hǎo. Dōngxi bié wàng le ná.

    All right. Do not forget your things.

  5. Chen Hao

    门口

    Wǒ sòng nǐ dào ménkǒu.

    I will see you to the door.

  6. Xiaoyu

    外面

    Bù yòng sòng, wàimian lěng.

    There is no need, it is cold outside.

  7. Auntie Wang

    路上小心消息

    Lùshang xiǎoxīn, dào jiā gěi wǒ fā gè xiāoxi.

    Take care on the way, and send me a message when you get home.

  8. Xiaoyu

    谢谢今天

    Hǎo de. Xièxie nín jīntiān de fàn.

    I will. Thank you for the meal.

  9. Auntie Wang

    客气

    Bié kèqi, cháng lái.

    Not at all, come again soon.

  10. Xiaoyu

    一定再见

    Yīdìng lái. Zàijiàn !

    I will. Goodbye!

Vocabulary to remember

  • 这么 zhème so, like this
  • 一会儿 yīhuìr a moment, a little while
  • 上班 shàngbān to go to work, to start work
  • 下次 xiàcì next time
  • 东西 dōngxi thing, something
  • sòng to see someone off, to give (a present)
  • 门口 ménkǒu doorway, entrance
  • 外面 wàimian outside
  • 小心 xiǎoxīn to be careful, to watch out
  • 消息 xiāoxi message, news

Language points

我先走了: leaving without giving offence

You do not announce your departure with a bare 我走了, which sounds like a walk-out. 我先走了 says "I am going first", that is, before the others and without presuming to end the evening. The expected reply is 再坐一会儿吧, which you decline once before actually leaving.

送: to see someone off, and to refuse it

送 means to give, but also to see someone out: 我送你, I will walk you out. In China the host follows the guest to the lift or to the street, and the guest declines with 不用送. Both gestures are expected, and the refusal is as much a part of courtesy as the offer.

路上小心

The phrase means "take care on the way" and is said to anyone leaving, whatever the distance. Its neighbours are 慢点儿开 to a driver, 一路平安 for a long journey, and 到了给我发个消息, which is today the commonest of them all.

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